I’ve spent the better part of my weekend in a hospital two hours away from my house. My grandmother isn’t doing well and we fear her story maybe ending soon. Those that know me, and know me well, know that I don’t talk about feelings or emotions very well; it makes me feel vulnerable and I don’t like that.
Social Media makes that a little easier; mostly because you can’t hear or see me being all emotional and girly.
I posted a simple tweet Saturday on the way to the hospital and within five minutes I had several text messages and DM’s asking if I was ok.
As much as I claim to be an independent, strong, and hard headed chick, deep down (ok not that deep) I’m needy. I need people in my life that will make me giggle at something silly and who will send me hugs via email. I’m thankful for the friends that I’ve made via Social Media. I wouldn’t trade you guys for anything in the world.
Ok, enough of sappy April; we’ll get back to business later this week.
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April- I lost my mother in-law 3 years ago. I am so sorry to hear this. Please know you have a wonderful support system with Twitter and Social media. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to drop me a note, or call.
I will be sending you prayers, and Hugs from PA.
Your friend,
Shennee
We are all needy to one degree or another, April. People who claim they are not needy are in the most pain of all, I think.
I love that you wrote this post because it reflects the thoughts and feelings of so many of us in the social media world. I think that these connections have made me stronger and more independent.
My thoughts are with you as you deal with your family and your personal pain. We wouldn’t trade you for anything in the world, either!
BUG hugs,
Joan
As well as BIG hugs. Duh.
As a man who typically finds it hard to express any sort of feeling other than grumpiness, this resonates with me. I guess we all find our way somehow?
Thank you all very much for the comments. I cannot begin to express how thankful I am for you guys.
Go on, be needy. It’s what makes you a real person instead of a twitter bot. I can haz needy. HUG.
@Michael – #thankyoumyfriend